Wednesday, February 11, 2015

People

Real story:
We are living this so called world..
There ten people A,B,C,D,E,F,G,H,I,J.
Person A was suffered a lot due some other person, and couldn't control his emotion. He tried to control and showed a lot of patience but eventually after repeated incidents, he completely lost his control and unknowingly did a mistake by venting out all his anger on his wife B. B has suffered a lot mentally and one fine day vent out all her frustration to her daughter-in-law C. C could not tolerate and could not understand why her good mother-in-law suddenly changed and one fine day vented out all her anger on her husband D. D who has lot of patience and loves his wife most, he couldn't digest the fact that his wife had changed, one fine day he lost his patience and vent out his frustration on his sub-ordinate E. Same continues from E to his son F, from F to his girl friend G, G to her mother H, H to her husband I, I to his friend.
And the best part is no one was really wanted to hurt others willingly, they just vent out their frustration in one form or another and the victim of such situation caused trouble for others and cycle continues.
Why this happens? It is hard to believe that single reason beyond this is their incapability to handle the things in positive way. I agree that they worked hard and suffered a lot, they tried to do their best to control the situations but when things turned into worst, simply tried to push that pressure to some other person either hurting them mentally or physically or financially.
Another reason is A>B>C>D>E>F>G>H>I>J in their opinion. Because of that reason, they hesitate to share their problems with their family members and hate the fact that they are incapable handling such small things.
Best solution for this is treating all of them as equal and not to think that other family member as an object and it may hurt their emotions badly and can cause serious damage. So always be open and share your problems with your beloved ones and will surely reduce the pressure to a greater extent.
Open environment will always reduce the damage and close the gaps which were created.

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