A,B,C are thick friends.
A is honest and trustworthy, never did a mistake. B is dishonest, always covering up the things. C has high expectations on A while no expectations on B. One fine day due to some unforeseen circumstances A had to do something unexpected that ruined his relationship with C as C thinks that A had betrayed C while the truth is different. Even though the mistake is very minute one but because of heavy expectations that small thing changed perception of C. What worst is from then onward whatever happens C keeps on blaming A even though A never did that mistake. Finally A had to choose two ways, one is to obey and accept C is right or part from C.
Another part of the story is B knows how to cover up the things and created bad image about him to C and since C has very least expectations on B, whenever B does small good things C's perception about B has started changing and continue to see only good things about B while continue to see only bad things about A.
this is called irony of life.
Same story can be observed in every relation of a human being.
Expectation of a human being is based on the three pillars; trust, dependency, admiration are the key factors play major role in any relationship. End result: no one is satisfied and no one is happy on the earth because mind influences reactions of human emotions. When mind is met with expectations it makes the person happier and when not it makes the person suffer.
Human beings will never be satisfied and start complaining when his expectation does not meet as it is is a physical need. Physical needs always change as it has no boundary.
Meditation helps people to think rationally as expectations from others gets reduced and sometimes no expectations at all. Meditation can change person's perception about the things what to expect and what not to expect and keeping cool and calm even when worst situations arise.
And to me a mother is a good meditation practitioner as she has enormous patience and do not expect anything from her kids in return. She knows only giving happiness to her kids. She will be happy when her kids are happy.
A is honest and trustworthy, never did a mistake. B is dishonest, always covering up the things. C has high expectations on A while no expectations on B. One fine day due to some unforeseen circumstances A had to do something unexpected that ruined his relationship with C as C thinks that A had betrayed C while the truth is different. Even though the mistake is very minute one but because of heavy expectations that small thing changed perception of C. What worst is from then onward whatever happens C keeps on blaming A even though A never did that mistake. Finally A had to choose two ways, one is to obey and accept C is right or part from C.
Another part of the story is B knows how to cover up the things and created bad image about him to C and since C has very least expectations on B, whenever B does small good things C's perception about B has started changing and continue to see only good things about B while continue to see only bad things about A.
this is called irony of life.
Same story can be observed in every relation of a human being.
Expectation of a human being is based on the three pillars; trust, dependency, admiration are the key factors play major role in any relationship. End result: no one is satisfied and no one is happy on the earth because mind influences reactions of human emotions. When mind is met with expectations it makes the person happier and when not it makes the person suffer.
Human beings will never be satisfied and start complaining when his expectation does not meet as it is is a physical need. Physical needs always change as it has no boundary.
Meditation helps people to think rationally as expectations from others gets reduced and sometimes no expectations at all. Meditation can change person's perception about the things what to expect and what not to expect and keeping cool and calm even when worst situations arise.
And to me a mother is a good meditation practitioner as she has enormous patience and do not expect anything from her kids in return. She knows only giving happiness to her kids. She will be happy when her kids are happy.
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